"Be careful lest in fighting a monster, you become one"
-Sheikh Hamza Yusuf quoting a German philosopher
-Sheikh Hamza Yusuf quoting a German philosopher
“And surely, We shall try you till We test those who strive hard (for the Cause of Allah) and As-Sabirun (the patient)”
If getting married will cause you to stray from the path, forgo this sunna. If your marriage is not facilitating your islam, perform the makruh (divorce). If having children will keep you away from Allah, abstain. For nothing is more important then worshipping Allah, this is an obligation to engage in the sunna and bypass the obligatory is a flaw. Everything is a means towards Allah. And if it is not helping you, you should let it go.
Do whatever you want, say whatever you want, be whoever you want, just follow the law of God and you'll be successful
A ship lost at sea for many days suddenly sighted a friendly vessel. From the mast of the unfortunate vessel was seen a signal: “Water, water. We die of thirst.” The answer from the friendly vessel at once came back: “Cast down your bucket where you are.” A second time, the signal, “Water, send us water!” went up from the distressed vessel. And was answered: “Cast down your bucket where you are.” A third and fourth signal for water was answered: “Cast down your bucket where you are.” The captain of the distressed vessel, at last heeding the injunction, cast down his bucket and it came up full of fresh, sparkling water from the mouth of the Amazon River.
Have high hymaa
Allah's Apostle said (to me), "You have been shown to me twice in (my) dreams. A man was carrying you in a silken cloth and said to me, 'This is your wife.' I uncovered it; and behold, it was you. I said to myself, 'If this dream is from Allah, He will cause it to come true.' "
Sayidna Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) was on his death bed and as he was dying his wife said, “How horrible this is...” to which Sayidna Bilal said, “Rather say what a great ecstasy... tomorrow we shall meet the loved ones, Muhammad and his companions."
"There is no companion of obedience except that he has the gaze of a wali of Allah upon him, either from the living or the deceased among them."
~Imam Amin Muhammad